Have you ever wondered why relationships just don't last? Everything is always perfect and strong in the beginning and as time changes our feelings are different.  Why is that?  Why do people change and the feelings of love grow weaker instead of stronger?

Do people have wandering eyes or want to experience new things with others?  Or, is is simply that the magic dies over time and we just have to get used to each other until we can't take it anymore.

Most often then not, this is what happens in relationships.  Most of the time the thought of boredom sets in in your partner or yourself that it can drive people literally mad.

When in fact, there is a way to keep the intimacy alive and full fill each others needs day in and day out.  The secret is understanding what each other needs.  If you don't know what it may or may not be, then you will have to closely examine your relationship to see what it needs to be filled each and every day.  Just like a plant.

The more you water your plant each day is almost the same in a relationship.  Constant nurturing of each others needs is an important factor to consider when you think of longevity in a relationship.